Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Going Visible

Gmail says I'm invisible.

And it challenges me to Go Visible.

So far I have not accepted the challenge...either from Gmail or Life. See, I want to be both Visible and Invisible. I want to be Invisible because then there are no expectations of me... if you can't see me, you can't be disappointed by me. It's better to be Invisible and not risk anything.

No. That's not it.

I want to be Visible. I want to be Alive and Excited, Motivated and Ambitious.

But I DON'T want to be Judged. I don't want people to dislike me. I want to satisfy everyone's expectations of me. I want to be able to be what everyone wants me to be. Who is Everyone? Good question.

Where did I get this idea that I have to be all things to all people in order to be successful? When did I decide that what I want for myself is not enough? My rational mind has told me to Eff the Haters, I'll Do What I Want, but when I'm challenged on that, I fold like a paper crane.

So far I think the problem lies with what I have chosen to do with my life. I have no defense when someone tells me I'm not doing the right thing because I actually agree with them. My only response is "If not this, then what? I don't know what I want to do." I've been very fortunate in my life so far to have been able to pick up pretty decent jobs whenever the opportunity presented itself. I have rarely fought for any of them; usually "fighting" meant saying what needed to be said in order to convince the person I was talking to that I wanted the job. I guess I've had a knack for that so far... and look where it's gotten me.

I realize that I'm coming to the point where I have to Choose. I have to choose what I want, I have to set my feet upon that path and start walking. I have to keep walking no matter what obstacles fall in my way.

I'm treading water right now and I think I have been for a while. It's time to put my head down and swim. Even if it's against the current.

1 comment:

Suz said...

OH I heart you so much.

Me too! To everything.


Also, the word verification I have to type to prove I am a Real Person? It's misspelled. This makes me nuts. And why do I have to click a little handicap symbol if I want to hear it??? That's not very politically correct.

That's all.